There’s a one-in-three chance your significant other hates romance. Happy Valentine’s Day!

A new survey asked people for their thoughts on romance, and 35% say it’s overrated. That includes 39 percent of men and 32 percent of women.

Here are three more results from the survey:

1. 74 percent of people say relationships need romance to survive. Basic math tells us that means at least a few people who said romance is overrated also said a relationship needs it to survive. Conclusion: Some people are just impossible to please.

2. 46 percent of people wish their significant other was more romantic. Both men and women were equally likely to say that.

3. And 34 percent of people have been told they aren’t romantic enough. Men are way more likely to have heard that than women.